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Joker:
Why don't all the moderators describe themselves? I don't
just mean "I do coins" or "I am 6ft with brown
hair" but describe your personality and the rules you
live your life under etc.
Mike: There are a great many people on the internet
who profile other users. Sometimes for illegal usage, other
times simply because they are bonkers and have nothing better
to do with their time. A lot of people fear these profilers,
not me, though, as I am an American gun nut. In fact, I'm
such a gun nut, that at one time I had 19 different fire arms
in my home, from shotguns, to high power rifles to side arms.
Financial difficulties have dictated that I don't own so many
at this time, though, so now I'm down to only the bare essentials
- a shotgun, a high powered rifle (bolt action - the most
accurate of fire arms), a .22 semi-auto rifle, a .357 magnum
(which is actually my wife's, kept by the bed, fully loaded
with hollow points - specifically Golden Sabers which are
highly invasive to the target - since I work at night [and
she's right handy with that side arm, a dead eye, so to speak])
and a gold plated .44 magnum that hangs on the wall in a glass
case (a museum piece, but fully functional). You'll be interested
to know that I am a gun smith, as was my maternal grandfather
(yep, mom's right handy with a fire arm too!). All of this
in mind, I have never owned an illegal fire arm in my life
and am against the illegal ownership of such. Although, I
think we should go back to the '30s, when fully automatic
machinery was legal in this country. Ah well, one can dream,
you know?
I've lived
in Toledo for most of my 38 years. I moved to Vegas for a
short stay of 8 months where I existed gambling day to day.
The other time I moved away from the armpit of the nation
was when I was managing restaurants and lived in Van Wert
- that was a two year stint. All in all, I managed restaurants
for 5 years. My last gig as a restaurant manager was at a
downtown shop on third shift, here in Toledo. All the freaks
were there, from the pros to the drug dealers and I would
venture to say that 3/4 of my customers were armed at any
time. In the two years that I put in at that place, I got
to see the worst of society walk through that door, I fed
many homeless (to keep them from begging in my parking lot)
and I came to a distinct hatred of the human animal.
I live
in the dark world that is my brain. Sometimes I find some
light, which I find in these pages dealing with the many magicians,
of whom I feel most comfortable being around. I hate parties,
I hate anything that gathers more than four or five people
together. I am as anti-social as they come. If I were rich
beyond imagination, I would hole up somewhere and never be
touched by humanity again, save this world that is Magic Bunny.
Unfortunately, I don't have this luxury, so I plod along.
My weakness
is bitterness. I see hatefulness oozing out of every pore
of the human body. I see death and I don't fear it, I welcome
it. I don't cry when those closest to me die, I envy them.
I feel the loss in my heart, but it is a selfish loss and
I mourn for myself, not for them, as they have gone on to
something better and left me behind to exist with one less
loved one. Break on through to the other side.
My strength
is loyalty. I will move heaven and earth to see that my friends
get what they want. Money means little to me and there is
nothing, and I mean nothing, that I will not do for those
who I call friend. When I feel in the depth of my very being
that someone is my friend, pity the fool who would wrong them.
I ask no quarter and I give no quarter and I can hold a grudge
that will last to the end of my life. And, when I honestly
hate someone, I hate them during every waking moment. There
are those alive today on whose graves I will dance - if unable
to dance I will crawl across it. These are not just passing
things, I'm talking people who've wronged me over 2 decades
ago and I still remember and I still hate and I will still
rejoice at their passing. If I must live, then I live with
the express desire to see their passing. Revenge is a dish
best served cold.
I am told
that I come across on these pages as arrogant. Gotta laugh
at that one. Nobody in this lifetime will ever hold themselves
in lower esteem than I do me. I am a psychologist's nightmare
and life's study. I guess the best summation that I can give
you is how one of my closest friends describes me: "An
enigma wrapped in a paradox." I am ultraconservative.
Then again, this is the internet, and that could all be one
big lie.
Joker: What are the advantages of been a moderator?
What makes you keep doing all the extra work?
Huw:
I plead temporary insanity.
Chabang: for me its purely for the ego boosting qualities
and as a way of overcompensating for my complete lack of social
skills. The glitz and glamour are just an added bonus.
Rich: The advantages for me are that it's something
to do, it keeps this great board squeaky clean and it just
brings me a lot of personal satisfaction. And like Chabang,
it helps me to socialize a bit more than I do in person.
Laura: It fills time in my otherwise empty and boring
life. Although, it is starting to detract from my favorite
hobby, staring into space!
Mike: I get a great deal of personal satisfaction in
the job that I do around here. It makes me feel like I'm actually
somebody, rather than a broken down, middle aged man who delivers
pizzas to earn a living. It is also a way of giving back.
Further, it is an ego boost, to be a moderator on a forum
that gets 100 posts, on average, daily. It is also a good
feeling to know that I am part of the reason that this board
is so successful and enjoys such a huge readership.
I also
thrive on the PMs that I get from time to time, saying, "Hey,
man, you know, you are the reason that I actually got out
and tried to show my stuff. You were instrumental in getting
me to take that first step and you helped me to gain the confidence
that I needed to do it." You know what, that feels damn
good for a guy who will never really amount to anything. But
that is the point, isn't it? If just one of the members on
this board gets out and becomes someone because of me, then
I have amounted to something. So, you could say that my reasons
are selfless, or you could say that they are very selfish,
depending on how you look at it.
Nigel: Daniel, if you allow me to extend the question
to include "Admin", I'll give you some feedback
too. Just over a year ago, I set up and established a forum
as a present for some friends who I felt had been extremely
unfairly treated. In fact, for the benefit of the other members
who have recently joined, it was the Daniel who is now "Joker"
who gave me a huge amount of support in realizing this dream.
I never thought one year ago that these boards would develop.
I was expecting to see a small private group meet together
on a board that replaced what had been lost to them following
an earlier incident. The growth of these boards has been phenomenal
and the ethos very quickly moved from a small select group
to a magicians' co-operative. This is the ethos I like to
think we have today.
Why do
I continue? Firstly, I am not one to drop a project once started.
I like to see something developed to its full potential. I
am not the sort of person who will only read the first few
covers of a book or complete half a jigsaw. Secondly, I still
enjoy managing these boards. Thirdly, I strongly believe that
there is something very good happening here and I desperately
want to see it continue. The day I feel that these boards
can achieve no more, the responsibilities become nothing more
than a chore or other members no longer benefit from these
boards will be the day that I reconsider your original question.
Sean:
Ditto to all that's been said. It's sad, but life is pretty
boring. I love Magic and I love to see others enjoying magic
and discussing it, and I like to be able to help provide a
better place for these people to come to. If anyone of you
have ever been to an unmoderated or poorly kept board, you'll
realize what utter chaos there is. Could you picture Magic
Bunny without moderators? Exposure threads everywhere, secret
stealers coming on, people DOING POINTLESS POSTS WHICH ALL
LOOKS LIKE THIS, and all the good people would leave because
it would be a very bad environment. I enjoy being part of
it, and as Mike said, giving something back. It's nice to
be able to provide for others and help them out
James: Can we have a vote for our next guest speaker?
and then see who we can get to interrogate, oops, I mean ask
questions to!
Mike: Ah, if only we had them lining up at our doorstep
so that we could vote on such a thing, James! That would
be a dream come true! In any case, you may be pleased to know
that our next guest speaker will be Milt Kort. You can view
his biography in the library if you are unfamiliar with the
name, however, if you have a copy of "Modern Coin Magic"
you'll see his name scattered throughout those pages. His
interview should start on the 11th of next month.
Sean: LOL. Mike is right. If ONLY! Could you picture
what way the vote would go? David Blaine! Derren Brown! Well
if ya get ‘em to come here and do it...good on ya!
Huw: As a psychic, I would be pleased to offer my services
in order to contact one of the great magicians of the past.
Already Houdini is pestering me to be the Bunny guest magician.
Personally, though, I'd recommend Tommy Cooper...
Nigel: Please don't feel that magicians are lining
up to appear on these pages. When you see a magician appear
it is the direct consequence of a month or more of emails
and a great number of hours of work from moderators, myself
and other members (such as Tora, who has many contacts) before
a magician is able to appear. If I were a "real"
magician my next trick would be to pull another magician out
off the hat every four weeks. The reason why you see long
pauses between our very special guests is that it is so difficult
trying to track down people who are willing to appear here.
This is an important factor why I am so grateful when professionals
do appear.
DK: I'm confused; the topics were not locked when we
had any other guest speaker so why do if with the Moderator's
team? Do you feel the other members would not add any value
to the topic, its limits the scope of the communication and
I hope it’s not the sign of things to come?
Sean: Quoting Admin, “Due to the number of different
replies each question may gain, the settings of this forum
have been tweaked very slightly so that only new posts may
be made. This is to afford courtesy to all the moderators
and to allow them the opportunity to reply to the original
question before the discussion in a thread diverges to a different
subject.” Blame it all on Admin!
Nigel: I changed the settings of this forum so that
every moderator would have the chance to reply before others
members interjected and brought the thread off track. You
are right that this was not done before - this is the first
time that we have had ten Guest Speakers all at the same time.
I want to afford courtesy to all of the moderator team by
allowing them the opportunity to reply directly to the question
that was set. If there is any point you wish to expand on
you could always raise this in a second thread or pm the moderator
privately.
Mike: It is definitely not the sign of things to come.
Lucien de Silva: The vast majority of MB’s members
are reasonable, amiable people, with an absolute dedication
to the art of magic. They come to the board to give advice,
share ideas and learn from others with a love of magic.
Yet, sadly,
as the membership grows, so will the proportion of agitators,
troublemakers and secret-seekers. At present, the moderators
take a moderate line with these people. Troublemakers are
given a fair chance to amend their behaviour, and secret-seekers
are informed of their errors. All this is done in an even-handed,
measured manner, even in the face of extreme provocation.
For this, I applaud the team. However, as the number of unwanted
types proliferate, will a stricter strategy for dealing with
them be necessary?
Sean: The simple answer is yes. This site is continuing
to grow and grow. As you have said, at the minute, users are
given a chance and e-mailed about what they've done, asked
to stop etc. When a post is moved or deleted, the majority
of the time, the person is e-mailed to inform them. When the
membership increases and we get more of these users, it's
just not going to be possible to e-mail them all and to give
them all second chances and watch them all run rampage around
the boards again and again. We will never be a strict nazi
regime, as you'll be glad to know, but the way I see it, a
more "hardline" attitude will have to be adopted
to deal with increasing numbers of these types of people.
Mind you, we may get lucky and never get any of them!......if
only.
Rich: Thankfully the number of deviant users we get
here are few, and any that join and immediately show signs
of trouble just get deleted, simple as that. Other times we
just give a fair warning to the user. All in all we try to
keep it fair, but we're far from gentle with users obviously
just trying to ruin to the boards.
Nigel: If you read through the lines of the Constitution
you will see that we already have a process that we follow
when dealing with the small number of problem users. However,
we are all aware of the problems that entail when the behaviour
of deviant users does not fit exactly within the criteria
laid down.
Personally,
I don't feel that the number of deviant users should ever
cause the procedure to be altered from what it already is
- the important issue is that it is the nature of the act
that may cause the procedure to alter. Many issues are relatively
easy to categorize and the protocol is clearly defined. However,
there are times when some form of indiscipline is outside
the boundaries of what is expected and, in these cases, this
must be treated specifically and on its own merits.
For example,
there is one pending case where another user has illegally
obtained private information from my own private restricted
files and then publicly posted these on another forum. This
is something that is undefined within the Constitution and
so therefore, is being dealt with along alternative lines
than those laid out within our guidelines. You may rest assured
that the moderating team and myself shall continue to ensure
that each case is dealt with fairly and justly.
Huw: I personally hate to delete or edit posts. In
fact, this is something I almost never do. I would certainly
never edit a post simply because I don't agree with or approve
of the opinions expressed. If people go well off topic or
seem to be on the threshold of starting a flame war, I prefer
simply to post a message asking them to desist. Once in a
while, a user may refuse to take heed of a polite request.
On a couple of occasions I have had to lock threads simply
to stop them degenerating into ranting. We do occasionally
suffer from users whose aim is maliciously to damage the board
or to post offensive messages. These people are very hard
to deal with. While I would fight for anyone's right to express
their views, we have to balance the health of the entire Magic
Bunny board and the happiness of its membership against the
rights of individual users who may wish to cause damage. It's
a difficult task and I can assure you that the moderator team
would always value the help and support of the members to
deal with those occasional cases when a user posts maliciously
or takes other actions aimed at damaging the board.
Andy D.: My personal feelings on this matter, is that
the constitution is too lenient. Most of the time it is quite
easy to 'see what's coming' with new deviant members, so why
give them 3 chances to spoil things for other users. We don’t
want to be tough, but we will not hesitate in taking tough
action to protect the many good and decent members that frequent
these forums. .......Oh, and one last thing...........if needs
be, we are quite prepared to let the 'Pitbull' off his leash….OUCH!!!!!
Nigel:
As this forum draws to a close tonight, I would like to take
this opportunity to thank the members of the moderator team
who contributed to this forum over the past week. Not only
have I enjoyed taking part myself but I have also learnt a
little more about the very people who have spent so many hours
each day and week ensuring that these forums are kept organized
and working smoothly. I'd like to thank these very special
friends, not only for their input this week but for their
support and advice over the past year too. A very big thank
you.
Mike: Never being one to pass on jumping on board the
thank you wagon, I'd also like to extend my deepest appreciation
to my fellow moderators. These people have backed me up and
offered support when I was in need. They have listened to
me when I simply needed to vent off some frustration. They
have slapped me when I needed it and didn't back down when
I got upset. They have kept me on an even keel when I was
going off the deep end. They have answered questions that
I needed answers to and have tirelessly given me support when
I couldn't understand the software. I consider each and every
one of them a part of my family. And thank you to all the
members who've also given me help when I needed it. Thank
you to all of those who spend hours on these boards helping
other magicians find their way in this convoluted industry.
You have given support in the form of massive reviews. You
have helped to keep this "ship" running smoothly
through choppy waters. You have stuck around through some
ugly situations and you have backed us up and willingly supported
these forums, in both good and bad. You have had posts that
cost time lost to software hiccups but still kept on posting.
I consider all of you part of my family, also. Thank you,
one and all.
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